There is convincing evidence that the search for solitude is not a luxury but a biological need. Just as humans posses a herding instinct that keeps us close to others most of the time, we also have a conflicting drive to seek out solitude. If the distance between ourselves and others becomes too great, we experience isolation and alienation, yet if the proximity to others becomes too close, we feel smothered and trapped.

Summary

This quote suggests that humans have both a natural inclination to be around others as well as a need for solitude. It argues that seeking solitude is not merely a luxury or personal preference, but a fundamental biological necessity. The quote explains that while humans have a herding instinct that keeps us close to others, there is also a conflicting drive to find moments of seclusion. It emphasizes the importance of maintaining a balanced distance from others, as excessive closeness can lead to feelings of being overwhelmed or trapped, while excessive distance can result in isolation and alienation from social connections.

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