Quote by George Eliot

Be courteous, be obliging, but don't give yourself over to be melted down for the benefit of the tallow trade.

Be courteous, be obliging, but don't give yourself over to b

Summary

This quote advises individuals to maintain politeness and helpfulness towards others, but it urges them not to sacrifice their own well-being and identity for the sake of pleasing others or conforming to societal expectations. It emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and not allowing oneself to be taken advantage of or exploited. The reference to the "tallow trade" serves as a metaphor for being used or consumed, suggesting that one should avoid being rendered into a subservient or selfless state solely for the benefit of others.

By George Eliot

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