I developed a nutty attitude where I'd think, If some guy really loves me he doesn't care if I'm fat. I'd come up with all these stupid reasons why it would be OK to be fat.

Summary

This quote reflects the author's state of mind when they had developed a skewed perspective on their own self-worth based on their weight. They had convinced themselves that someone's love for them shouldn't be affected by their weight, rationalizing that unconditionally accepting their own size was acceptable. It highlights the internal struggle and self-deception that can occur when one's perception of their own worth becomes tied to societal expectations and others' acceptance.

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