Quote by Shelley E. Taylor, Positive Illu

The idea that positive illusions are in the service of sef-esteem virtually requires that they stay in check. If one develops substantially unrealistic expectations regarding the future that greatly exceed what one is actually able to accomplish, then one is set up for failure and disappointment, leading to lower self-esteem.

The idea that positive illusions are in the service of sef-e

Summary

This quote suggests that positive illusions, such as having optimistic beliefs and expectations about oneself, can be beneficial for maintaining self-esteem. However, it emphasizes the importance of keeping these illusions grounded in reality. If someone develops extremely unrealistic expectations that go beyond their actual capabilities, it can lead to failure and disappointment, ultimately harming their self-esteem. Therefore, while positive illusions can be helpful, it is crucial to strike a balance and maintain realistic expectations to avoid setting oneself up for potential setbacks.

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By Shelley E. Taylor, Positive Illu

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