Quote by Henri Nouwen

Let us not underestimate how hard it is to be compassionate. Compassion is hard because it requires the inner disposition to go with others to the place where they are weak, vulnerable, lonely, and broken. But this is not our spontaneous response to suffering. What we desire most is to do away with suffering by fleeing from it or finding a quick cure for it. As busy, active, relevant ministers, we want to earn our bread by making a real contribution. This means first and foremost doing something to show that our presence makes a difference. And so we ignore our greatest gift, which is our ability to enter into solidarity with those who suffer. Those who can sit in silence with their fellowman, not knowing what to say but knowing that they should be there, can bring new life in a dying heart. Those who are not afraid to hold a hand in gratitude, to shed tears in grief and to let a sigh of distress arise straight from the heart can break through paralyzing boundaries and witness the birth of a new fellowship, the fellowship of the broken.

Summary

This quote highlights the difficulty of showing true compassion. It emphasizes that our natural inclination is to avoid suffering and seek quick solutions to alleviate it. Often, as busy individuals, we strive to make a tangible impact and overlook the profound ability to empathize with others in their vulnerability. The author emphasizes that sitting in silence, holding a hand, shedding tears, and offering genuine presence can create a powerful bond with those who suffer. By embracing these acts of solidarity, we can bring comfort and hope to those in pain, creating a new sense of fellowship amidst brokenness.