Quote by Virginia Satir

What lingers from the parent's individual past, unresolved or incomplete, often becomes part of her or his irrational parenting.

What lingers from the parent's individual past, unresolved o

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This quote suggests that unresolved issues or unfinished business from a parent's past can influence their parenting style in a negative or irrational way. The experiences or emotions that linger from their own upbringing or personal history may unconsciously impact their ability to parent effectively. These unresolved issues can manifest in behaviors that are inconsistent, unfair, or irrational towards their children. Understanding and addressing these unresolved aspects of their past can help parents break free from these patterns and become more conscious and rational in their parenting approach.

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