Lose/Win people bury a lot of feelings. And unexpressed feelings come forth later in uglier ways. Psychosomatic illnesses often are the reincarnation of cumulative resentment, deep disappointment and disillusionment repressed by the Lose/Win mentality. Disproportionate rage or anger, overreaction to minor provocation, and cynicism are other embodiments of suppressed emotion. People who are constantly repressing, not transcending feelings toward a higher meaning find that it affects the quality of their relationships with others.

Summary

This quote suggests that individuals who possess a "Lose/Win" mentality often suppress their true feelings, leading to negative consequences. These unexpressed emotions can resurface later in harmful ways, such as psychosomatic illnesses, disproportionate anger, or cynicism. By burying their resentments, disappointments, and disillusionments, individuals hinder their ability to form meaningful connections and maintain healthy relationships. Repressing emotions diminishes the quality of life and highlights the importance of addressing and transcending these feelings rather than simply burying them.

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