Why does a man take it for granted that a girl who flirts with him wants him to kiss her -- when, nine times out of ten, she only wants him to want to kiss her?

Summary

This quote questions the assumption made by men that a woman's flirtatious behavior implies she wants to be kissed. The speaker suggests that in many cases, the woman may simply desire to be desired or admired, rather than to engage in physical intimacy. It highlights the importance of avoiding generalizations and misinterpreting flirtation as a direct invitation for a kiss, recognizing that intentions and desires can vary.

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