No matter how prepared you think you are for the death of a loved one, it still comes as a shock, and it still hurts very deeply.

Summary

This quote emphasizes that the magnitude of grief and pain upon losing a loved one is unaffected by how mentally prepared one believes themselves to be. Regardless of any mental or emotional preparation, the actual experience of loss remains shocking and deeply painful. It highlights the enduring and universal nature of bereavement, reminding us that death's impact cannot be fully anticipated or mitigated despite our readiness or expectations.

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