Quote by Anthony de Mello

Perfect love casts out fear. Where there is love there are no demands, no expectations, no dependency. I do not demand that you make me happy; my happiness does not lie in you. If you were to leave me, I will not feel sorry for myself; I enjoy your company immensely, but I do not cling.

Perfect love casts out fear. Where there is love there are n

Summary

This quote speaks to the transformative power of love. It suggests that genuine love erases fear and removes certain emotional dependencies. It emphasizes that true love does not come with demands, expectations, or a reliance on someone else for happiness. Instead, it highlights the importance of finding happiness within oneself and not clinging to or feeling sorry for oneself in the face of potential separation. This quote promotes a sense of self-assurance and a healthy, non-codependent perspective on love and relationships.

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Happiness Love Awareness

By Anthony de Mello

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