...we rarely confide in those who are better than we. Rather, we are more inclined to flee their society. Most often, on the other hand, we confess to those who are like us and who share our weaknesses. Hence we don't want to improve ourselves and be bettered, for we should first have to be judged in default. We merely wish to be pitied and encouraged in the course we have chosen. In short, we should like, at the same time, to cease being guilty and yet not to make the effort of cleansing ourselves.

Summary

This quote suggests that humans are reluctant to confide in people who are superior to them because they fear judgment. Instead, they seek solace in the company of individuals who are similar and share their weaknesses. This behavior stems from a desire to justify and continue their flaws, rather than striving for self-improvement. The quote implies that people seek empathy and encouragement, wanting to be pitied for their faults while avoiding the effort required to change and cleanse themselves of their guilt.

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