To have the reputation of possessing the most perfect social tact, talk to every woman as if you loved her, and to every man as if he bored you.

Summary

This quote suggests that in order to be socially adept and well-regarded, one should treat women with utmost kindness and charm, as if deeply in love with them. On the other hand, it suggests that one should approach interactions with men with a sense of disinterest and indifference. The quote plays on the idea that women appreciate attention and admiration, while men are often more impressed by aloofness and unconcern. Ultimately, it implies that managing one's communication and demeanor based on these gender stereotypes can lead to a reputation of having excellent social tact.

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