To say that a man is your Friend, means commonly no more than this, that he is not your enemy. Most contemplate only what would be the accidental and trifling advantages of Friendship, as that the Friend can assist in time of need by his substance, or his influence, or his counsel. Even the utmost goodwill and harmony and practical kindness are not sufficient for Friendship, for Friends do not live in harmony merely, as some say, but in melody.

Summary

This quote by Henry David Thoreau suggests that calling someone a friend often implies a lack of hostility rather than a deep connection. Many people view friendship as solely based on the occasional benefits it brings, such as assistance in times of trouble or advice. However, Thoreau argues that friendship goes beyond practical usefulness. True friends not only maintain goodwill and cooperation but also live in harmony and melody, implying a deeper level of understanding and synergy in their relationship.

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