See, as much as you want to hold on to the bitter sore memory thatsomeone has left this world, you are still in it. And the very act of livingis a tide: at first it seems to make no difference at all, and then one dayyou look down and see how much pain has eroded.

Summary

This quote suggests that while we may be deeply affected by the loss of someone, life goes on and gradually heals our wounds. It emphasizes that the act of living is a powerful force that can gradually diminish the pain we feel. Initially, it may seem like it has no impact, but over time we realize how much healing has occurred. It implies that we must continue living, even in the face of heartache, and trust in the transformative power of time and life itself to help us heal.