There is a sort of veteran woman of condition, who, having lived always in the grand monde, and having possibly had some gallantries, together with the experience of five and twenty or thirty years, form a young fellow better than all the rules that can be given him. Wherever you go, make some of those women your friends; which a very little matter will do. Ask their advice, tell them your doubts or difficulties as to your behavior; but take great care not to drop one word of their experience; for experience implies age, and the suspicion of age, no woman, let her be ever so old, ever forgives.

Summary

This quote suggests that there is a type of experienced woman who has lived a life of privilege and refined social circles. These women, with their knowledge gained from years of experience and possible romantic relationships, can provide valuable guidance to young men that surpasses any rules or guidelines available. The quote advises forming friendships with these women, seeking their advice, and sharing uncertainties in order to improve one's behavior and manners. However, it warns against mentioning their age or experience, as women, regardless of age, tend to be sensitive about the implications of aging.

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