In this world there are only two tragedies. One is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it. The last is much the worst; the last is a real tragedy!

Summary

This quote by Oscar Wilde suggests that there are two tragedies in life. The first tragedy occurs when someone desires something but does not achieve it. This disappointment represents a common aspect of life. However, the second tragedy, and the worse of the two, is ironically when someone actually attains what they wanted. The implication here is that once a desire is fulfilled, the individual may realize the emptiness or disillusionment associated with the obtained goal. This suggests that the pursuit or idealization of something can often be more fulfilling than its actual attainment, as reality may not meet one's expectations.

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