Quote by Richard Whately

To be always thinking about your manners is not the way to make them good; the very perfection of manners is not to think about yourself.

To be always thinking about your manners is not the way to m

Summary

This quote emphasizes that true good manners come effortlessly and spontaneously from within, without constant self-consciousness. Continually fixating on one's behavior and worrying about appearances hinders the ability to develop genuine and natural manners. The quote suggests that the essence of refined manners lies in selflessness and genuine consideration for others, rather than being focused on personal image or self-interest. Good manners should flow organically without the need for constant self-evaluation and self-centeredness.

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Manners

By Richard Whately

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