Quote by Deborah Tannen

The biggest mistake is believing there is one right way to listen, to talk, to have a conversation - or a relationship.

The biggest mistake is believing there is one right way to l

Summary

This quote highlights the misconception of assuming there is a single correct approach to communication and relationships. It suggests that there is no one-size-fits-all method for listening, talking, conversing, or fostering connections with others. Society often imposes rigid norms and expectations, leading individuals to believe there is a sole right way to engage with others. However, this quote challenges this notion, emphasizing that everyone has unique communication styles and preferences. It encourages a more inclusive perspective where diverse approaches to communication and relationships are valued and understood.

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By Deborah Tannen

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