Quote by Sir Matthew Hale, from "A Leter
Do not choose for your friends and familiar acquaintance those that are of an estate or quality too much above yours...You will hereby accustom yourselves to live after their rate in clothes, in habit, and in expenses, whereby you will learn a fashion and rank of life above your degree and estate, which will in the end be your undoing.
Summary
This quote advises against selecting friends and acquaintances who are of a significantly higher social status or wealth than oneself. The reasoning behind this is that by associating with such individuals, one may inadvertently adopt their lifestyle and spending habits, leading to a desire for a higher socioeconomic status. Ultimately, this can have negative consequences as it may be unsustainable or lead to financial ruin. The quote highlights the importance of being mindful of the influence that others have on one's behaviors and choices.