Quote by Ellen Goodman

We criticize mothers for closeness. We criticize fathers for distance. How many of us have expected less from our fathers and appreciated what they gave us more? How many of us always let them off the hook?

We criticize mothers for closeness. We criticize fathers for

Summary

This quote highlights the contrasting expectations and judgments placed on mothers and fathers in regards to their emotional availability. It questions the tendency of society to criticize mothers for being too involved and fathers for being distant. The quote prompts us to reflect on our own biased expectations, asking whether we have been quick to expect less from our fathers and less likely to appreciate their efforts. It challenges us to break away from tradition and acknowledge the material and emotional contributions fathers make, rather than always excusing them or expecting less from them.

By Ellen Goodman

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