Quote by Alain de Botton, On Love

The more familiar two people become, the more the language they speak together departs from that of the ordinary, dictionary-defined discourse. Familiarity creates a new language, an in-house language of intimacy that carries reference to the story the two lovers are weaving together and that cannot be readily understood by others.

The more familiar two people become, the more the language t

Summary

This quote highlights how close relationships can lead to the development of a unique language between individuals involved. As two people grow more familiar with each other, their communication tends to evolve beyond the conventional and commonly understood language. This shared intimate language incorporates references and meanings specific to the personal stories and experiences of the individuals involved. As a result, this newly created language becomes exclusive and difficult for outsiders to comprehend or fully grasp, emphasizing the depth and intricacy of the bond between the two lovers.

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By Alain de Botton, On Love

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