To find out what others are feeling, don't prod or poke. If you want play with a turtle, you can't get it to come out of its shell by prodding and poking it with a stick, you might kill it. Be gentle not harsh, hard or forceful.

Summary

This quote emphasizes the importance of empathy and effective communication. When trying to understand others' emotions, it suggests that a gentle and considerate approach is more effective than being harsh or forceful. The analogy of a turtle in its shell highlights the need to be patient and create a safe environment for someone to express their feelings. By avoiding prodding and poking, we foster trust and create a space where open dialogue and emotional connection can flourish.

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