Quote by Peter McWilliams

Guilt is anger directed at ourselves - at what we did or did not do. Resentment is anger directed at others - at what they did or did not do.


Guilt is anger directed at ourselves - at what we did or did

Summary

This quote highlights the distinction between guilt and resentment. It suggests that guilt emerges when we feel anger towards ourselves for our own actions or inactions, while resentment arises when we direct our anger towards others for their actions or inactions. In essence, guilt is a self-focused emotion resulting from personal responsibility, whereas resentment is aimed at others for their perceived responsibility. Understanding this differentiation can help individuals navigate their emotions and develop healthier ways of coping with anger.

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Anger
By Peter McWilliams
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