Quote by Mary J. Blige

In the inner city, there's a mentality that the government owes you something. My breakthrough came when I stopped feeling sorry for myself and took responsibility for every part of my life. No more pity parties. I've gotta love me more than anybody else loves me.

In the inner city, there's a mentality that the government o

Summary

This quote highlights the mindset prevalent in inner city communities, where there is often a belief that the government has a responsibility to provide for individuals. The author shares their personal breakthrough when they realized that relying on self-pity and expecting external help was not the solution. Instead, they emphasize the need to take personal responsibility and prioritize self-love above seeking validation from others. It suggests that by embracing self-accountability, individuals can achieve personal growth and overcome the limitations imposed by a mindset of entitlement.

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By Mary J. Blige

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