Quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson
Leave this touching and clawing. Let him be to me a spirit. A message, a thought, a sincerity, a glance from him, I want, but not news nor pottage. I can get politics, and chat, and neighborly conveniences from cheaper companions. Should not the society of my friend be to me poetic, pure, universal, and great as nature itself? Ought I to feel that our tie is profane in comparison with yonder bar of cloud that sleeps on the horizon, or that clump of waving grass that divides the brook? Let us not vilify, bur raise it to that standard. That great, defying eye, that scornful beauty of his mien and action, do not pique yourself on reducing, but rather fortify and enhance.
Summary
In this quote, the speaker emphasizes the deep desire for a truly meaningful connection with a friend. They express a longing for more than just the superficial aspects of friendship, such as news or small talk. Instead, they yearn for a spiritual bond, a profound exchange of thoughts, sincerity, and a glimpse into the essence of their friend's being. The speaker argues that the companionship of a friend should be elevated to a higher, more poetic, and universal level, compared to the mundane conveniences offered by other acquaintances. They encourage cherishing and enhancing the unique qualities of their friend, rather than trying to diminish or undermine them.