Quote by Alain de Botton, On Love

The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.


The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our

Summary

This quote reflects the intense desire that people have for a destined love in their romantic life. It acknowledges the often disappointing reality of having to settle for partners who don't truly understand or connect with us on a deep level. However, it also suggests that it is only natural for us to hope and believe that one day we will serendipitously come across the person who perfectly matches our dreams and desires.

By Alain de Botton, On Love
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