Quote by Rose Wilder Lane

As novices, we think we're entirely responsible for the way people treat us. I have long since learned that we are responsible only for the way we treat people.

As novices, we think we're entirely responsible for the way

Summary

This quote highlights a shift in perspective from feeling responsible for how others treat us to understanding that we only have control over our own actions and behavior towards others. As beginners, we may mistakenly believe that we can influence how people treat us, but with experience, we come to realize that we cannot control others' actions or thoughts. The quote encourages us to focus on our own conduct and emphasizes the importance of treating people with kindness and respect, regardless of how they may treat us in return.

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By Rose Wilder Lane

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