We often speak of love when we really should be speaking of the drive to dominate or to master, so as to confirm ourselves as active agents, in control of our own destinies and worthy of respect from others.

Summary

This quote suggests that the concept of love is frequently misunderstood. Instead of focusing on the genuine affection and care for others, we often confuse it with a desire for power and control. We seek to dominate and assert our own authority, striving to be seen as individuals who have control over our lives and command the respect of others. In this interpretation, love becomes a tool for self-confirmation and validation rather than a selfless emotion.

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