Quote by Oscar Wilde

One should never make one's debut with a scandal. One should reserve that to give an interest to one's old age.


One should never make one's debut with a scandal. One should

Summary

This quote suggests that it is wise to avoid starting one's life or career with controversy or scandal. It advises reserving such actions for later stages of life in order to keep a level of excitement and intrigue during old age. Implied is the idea of pacing oneself and choosing the right moments for dramatic actions or choices, ensuring that they have a lasting impact and make life more interesting in the long run.

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By Oscar Wilde
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