Quote by W. H. Auden

What people don't realize is that intimacy has its conventions as well as ordinary social intercourse. There are three cardinal rules -- don't take somebody else's boyfriend unless you've been specifically invited to do so, don't take a drink without being asked, and keep a scrupulous accounting in financial matters.

What people don't realize is that intimacy has its conventio

Summary

This quote highlights the existence of conventions and rules within intimate relationships that are often overlooked. It suggests that there are three fundamental rules to be followed: refraining from pursuing someone else's partner unless granted permission, not assuming entitlement to someone else's resources without invitation, and maintaining a strict and honest approach in financial matters. By emphasizing these principles, the quote suggests that intimacy, like any other social interaction, requires boundaries and mutual respect.

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By W. H. Auden

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