Quote by Jodi Picoult

It's not politically correct to say that you love one child more than you love your others. I love of my kids, period, and they're all your favorites in different ways. But ask any parent who's been through some kind of crisis surrounding a child--a health scare, an academic snarl, an emotional problem--and we will tell you the truth. When something upends the equilibrium--when one child needs you more than the others--that imbalance becomes a black hole. You may never admit it out loud, but the one you love the most is the one who needs you more desperately than his siblings. What we really hope is that each child gets a turn. That we have deep enough reserves to be there for each of them, at different times.All this goes to hell when two of your children are pitted against each other, and both of them want you on their side.

Summary

This quote highlights the complexity of a parent's love for their children. It acknowledges that while it may not be socially acceptable to openly express favoritism, there can be instances when one child's needs, whether due to a crisis or other circumstances, take precedence. It suggests that parents hope to be able to provide support and be there for each child when they need it, and that situations arise when two children competing for support can disrupt this delicate balance. Ultimately, it reveals the challenging nature of parental love and the desire to be there for each child individually.