Quote by Jodi Picoult
We pretend that we know our children, because it's easier than admitting the truth--from the minute that cord is cut, they are strangers. It's far easier to tell yourself your daughter is still a little girl than to see her in a bikini and realize she has the curves of a young woman; it's safer to say you're a good parent who has all the right conversations about drugs and sex than to acknowledge there are a thousand things she would never tell you.
Summary
This quote highlights the challenging reality of parenting, emphasizing how it is often easier for parents to deceive themselves into believing they fully understand and know their children. Admitting that children are constantly evolving and, at times, can feel like strangers can be difficult. The quote suggests that it is more comfortable to cling to an idealized image of our children, resisting changes that challenge our perception of them. However, it warns that failing to acknowledge these differences can hinder genuine communication and prevent parents from truly understanding their child's experiences and struggles.
By Jodi Picoult