Quote by Plutarch, AEMILIUS PAULUS transl
The reason of this separation has not come to our knowledge; but there seems to be a truth conveyed in the account of another Roman's being divorced from his wife, which may be applicable here. This person being highly blamed by his friends, who demanded, Was she not chaste? was she not fair? was she not fruitful? holding out his shoe, asked them, Whether it was not new? and well made? Yet, added he, none of you can tell where it pinches me.
Summary
This quote suggests that there may be underlying reasons behind a separation or divorce that are not apparent to others. It uses the story of a Roman who defended his divorce by comparing it to a well-made and new shoe that others perceived as perfect. The Roman argues that although the shoe may seem flawless, nobody can truly understand where it causes discomfort or pain for him. In a similar vein, the quote suggests that outsiders cannot fully comprehend the intricate complexities and personal struggles within a relationship that may lead to separation.
Topics
Divorce
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