Quote by John Green

Being in a relationship, that's something you choose. Being friends, that's just something you are.

Being in a relationship, that's something you choose. Being

Summary

This quote highlights the distinction between choosing to be in a romantic relationship and naturally becoming friends. It suggests that a romantic relationship requires a conscious decision to commit oneself, while friendship is more inherent and does not necessarily demand deliberate action. It implies that relationships are a product of choice, whereas friendships often occur spontaneously and organically. Ultimately, the quote emphasizes the difference in the dynamics and intentions between romantic relationships and friendships.

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Friendship Inspirational

By John Green

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