Quote by C.S. Lewis
There is no safe investment. To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket - safe, dark, motionless, airless - it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. The alternative to tragedy, or at least to the risk of tragedy, is damnation. The only place outside Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers and perturbations of love is Hell.
Summary
This quote, attributed to C.S. Lewis, speaks to the inherent vulnerability involved in love and relationships. Lewis argues that there is no such thing as a completely safe investment, as to love means to open oneself up to the possibility of heartache and pain. If one wishes to protect their heart from being broken, they might choose to avoid emotional connections altogether, becoming isolated and self-centered as a result. However, Lewis suggests that this self-imposed isolation ultimately leads to a different kind of tragedy - a life devoid of love and connection, akin to Hell.
By C.S. Lewis