Quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson, Behavior fr
I have seen manners that make a similar impression with personal beauty; that give the like exhilaration, and refine us like that; and, in memorable experiences, they are suddenly better than beauty, and make that superfluous and ugly. But they must be marked by fine perception, the acquaintance with real beauty. They must always show self-control: you shall not be facile, apologetic, or leaky, but king over your word; and every gesture and action shall indicate power at rest. Then they must be inspired by the good heart. There is no beautifier of complexion, or form, or behavior, like the wish to scatter joy and not pain around us. 'Tis good to give a stranger a meal, or a night's lodging. 'Tis better to be hospitable to his good meaning and thought, and give courage to a companion. We must be as courteous to a man as we are to a picture, which we are willing to give the advantage of a good light.
Summary
This quote emphasizes the importance of manners and their ability to have a profound impact on others. Manners, when rooted in genuine appreciation for beauty and shaped by self-control and positivity, hold the power to overshadow physical attractiveness. These manners, marked by perceptive kindness and a desire to spread joy, act as a beautifier of not only physical appearance but also behavior. The quote suggests that we should treat others with the same courtesy and respect as we would a cherished painting, allowing them the benefit of a favorable light and encouraging their well-intentioned thoughts and actions.
Topics
Manners
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