Quote by Andre Dubus, Broken Vessels, 199

Shyness has a strange element of narcissism, a belief that how we look, how we perform, is truly important to other people.

Shyness has a strange element of narcissism, a belief that h

Summary

This quote suggests that shyness can stem from a form of self-centeredness. It conveys the notion that shy individuals often have a tendency to believe that their appearance and performance hold great significance to others. They may worry excessively about how they come across, assuming that everyone is highly attentive to and concerned about their actions. This perspective portrays shyness as a manifestation of an exaggerated self-importance, where individuals falsely perceive others as highly observant and judgmental.

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By Andre Dubus, Broken Vessels, 199

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