Quote by Leo Tolstoy

I sit on a man's back, choking him and making him carry me, and yet assure myself and others that I am very sorry for him and wish to ease his lot by all possible means - except by getting off his back.

I sit on a man's back, choking him and making him carry me,

Summary

This quote, often attributed to Leo Tolstoy, highlights the hypocrisy and insincerity that can exist within human relationships. It suggests that people often claim to empathize with and want to help others while simultaneously benefiting from their suffering. Despite expressing sympathy, the quote suggests that true compassion entails taking action and removing oneself from situations where others are unjustly burdened or oppressed. It serves as a call to reflect on our own actions and motivations, urging us to strive for genuine empathy and concrete actions that relieve the plight of those we claim to care about.

By Leo Tolstoy

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