Quote by Edward De Bono, The Happiness Pu
Thinking is often regarded as an extension of the ego. Clever children in school base their egos on being clever and on being right all the time. They dislike group work because they cannot then show the rest of the class where the good idea originated. When the ego and thinking are treated as the same thing there is a reluctance to be wrong and a need to defend a point of view rather than to explore the situation. A person should be able to treat his thinking much as a tennis player treats his strokes: he should be able to walk off the court complaining that his backhand was not working very well on that occasion or that it required more practice. This new meta-system is very much in favour of the self, but a self that is based on a proper sense of dignity, not on an inflated ego. A person who dare not admit he is wrong inflates his ego but weakens his self.ISBN 0851171257 Copyright
Summary
This quote highlights the importance of separating our egos from our thinking. It suggests that clever individuals in school may develop their egos around their intelligence and being right all the time, leading to a dislike for group work where they can't take individual credit. When our ego becomes intertwined with our thinking, it creates a reluctance to admit when we are wrong and a need to defend our own viewpoint rather than explore other perspectives. Instead, we should treat our thinking as separate from ourselves and be willing to acknowledge when we are wrong, allowing for personal growth and a stronger sense of self based on dignity rather than an inflated ego.
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Ego
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