Quote by Barbara Deming

Vengeance is not the point change is. But the trouble is that in most people's minds the thought of victory and the thought of punishing the enemy coincide.

Vengeance is not the point change is. But the trouble is tha

Summary

This quote highlights the distinction between seeking revenge and pursuing meaningful change. It suggests that while targeting revenge may seem like a path to victory, it often hampers the true objective of fostering change. The challenge lies in the fact that many individuals conflate triumph with punishing their adversaries, misaligning the focus from creating positive transformation towards an urge for retribution. By recognizing this mindset contradiction, the quote encourages people to shift their perspective and prioritize the pursuit of change for the greater good instead of seeking vengeance.

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By Barbara Deming

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