Quote by John Eldredge

I wasn't mean; I wasn't evil. I was nice. And let me tell you, a hesitant man is the last thing in the world a woman needs. She needs a lover and a warrior, not a Really Nice Guy.

I wasn't mean; I wasn't evil. I was nice. And let me tell yo

Summary

This quote highlights the speaker's realization that being overly nice or hesitating in their actions does not serve a woman's needs. Instead, they argue that a woman requires someone who is not only kind and loving but also assertive and willing to fight for her. By rejecting the idea of being a "Really Nice Guy," the speaker implies that strength and passion are more important qualities in a romantic partner than simply being nice.

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By John Eldredge

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