Quote by George Eliot
We women are always in danger of living too exclusively in the affections; and though our affections are perhaps the best gifts we have, we ought also to have our share of the more independent life -- some joy in things for their own sake. It is piteous to see the helplessness of some sweet women when their affections are disappointed -- because all their teaching has been, that they can only delight in study of any kind for the sake of a personal love. They have never contemplated an independent delight in ideas as an experience which they could confess without being laughed at. Yet surely women need this defense against passionate affliction even more than men.
Summary
This quote highlights the danger of women become overly dependent on their affections and relationships, neglecting their own personal growth or interests. Women are taught that their happiness solely lies in nurturing their relationships and find it hard to find joy in other aspects of life. The author believes that women should strive for an independent life, finding delight in pursuing their interests and ideas for their own sake. This way, they can protect themselves from the pain and helplessness that comes from disappointment in relationships, and discover a different source of fulfillment and resilience.
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Women
By George Eliot
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