Quote by Lord Chesterfield
Women who are either indisputably beautiful, or indisputably ugly, are best flattered upon the score of their understandings; but those who are in a state of mediocrity are best flattered upon their beauty, or at least their graces: for every woman who is not absolutely ugly, thinks herself handsome.
Summary
This quote suggests that women who are either extremely beautiful or extremely unattractive should be complimented on their intelligence, as their physical appearance is already a defining trait. On the other hand, women who fall into the average category should be praised for their looks or personal charm since they may perceive themselves as more attractive than they actually are. The quote implies that flattery can be tailored to each individual's perception of their own attractiveness.