Quote by Publilius Syrus

Admonish your friends privately, but praise them openly.


Admonish your friends privately, but praise them openly.

Summary

This quote encourages us to be tactful in providing feedback or criticism to our friends. It advises that when we need to point out their mistakes or offer guidance, it should be done in private, allowing them to save face and maintain their dignity. Conversely, when our friends achieve something commendable, it suggests expressing our appreciation openly, celebrating their successes, and boosting their confidence. By following this approach, we can build stronger relationships with our friends and create an environment of support and growth.

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By Publilius Syrus
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