Quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson

The betrothed and accepted lover has lost the wildest charms of his maiden by her acceptance. She was heaven while he pursued her, but she cannot be heaven if she stoops to one such as he!

The betrothed and accepted lover has lost the wildest charms

Summary

This quote emphasizes the idea that the thrill of a romantic pursuit often lies in the unattainable nature of the other person. Once a lover is betrothed and accepted, they lose some of their allure. The person who was once heavenly in their pursuit loses their celestial status when they lower themselves to be with someone deemed unworthy. It suggests that the act of acceptance diminishes the perceived value or desirability of the person who has been pursued.

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By Ralph Waldo Emerson

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