Better to forget, better to let go of the bitterness. I say bitterness is only good in medicine, or if you fry bitter gourd with egg, then it's dlicious. I told Lan-Lan many times, we have only one life, it's important to kua kwee, to look spaciously. Not keep the eyes so narrowed down to the small dispairs.Those people who say forgive and forget, I say they not right. Not so simple. I say, find right medicine. Bitterness must be just right for problem. Then swallow it, think of good things can do when no longer sick.

Summary

In this quote, the speaker emphasizes the importance of letting go of bitterness and not holding onto negative emotions. They suggest that bitterness, like medicine, can serve a purpose but should ultimately be consumed in the right amount for the specific problem. The speaker disagrees with the notion of simply forgiving and forgetting, stating that it is not as simple as it may seem. Instead, they advocate for finding the right approach or solution to address and overcome bitterness, and focusing on the positive possibilities that await once the negative emotions are no longer controlling one's actions and thoughts.

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