When, however, you have an enemy, then do not requite him good for evil: for that would shame him. Instead, prove that he did some good for you. And rather be angry than put to shame! And when you are cursed, I do not like it that you want to bless. Rather curse a little also! And if you are done a great injustice, then quickly add five small ones. Hideous to behold is he who is obsessed with an injustice.

Summary

This quote suggests that the best way to handle an enemy is not by retaliating with kindness, as that would embarrass them. Instead, one should highlight any good they may have done and allow anger to prevail rather than feeling shamed. Similarly, when faced with curses, it implies that one should not immediately respond with blessings but rather return some negativity. Lastly, if subjected to a significant injustice, the quote advises responding with multiple small injustices to avoid becoming consumed by the initial wrong. It warns against allowing oneself to be transformed into a repulsive figure fixated on seeking justice.

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