Quote by Allan Lokos

Suffering usually relates to wanting things to be different from the way they are.

Suffering usually relates to wanting things to be different

Summary

This quote suggests that suffering is often a result of our desires and attachments. When we strongly yearn for something to be different than it currently is, we create a gap between our expectations and reality. This discrepancy can lead to frustration, disappointment, and ultimately, suffering. By accepting and embracing the present moment as it is, without the need for things to be different, we may reduce our suffering and experience a greater sense of peace and contentment.

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Health Inspirational Suffering Inspiration Buddhism Mindfulness

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