Quote by Iris Murdoch

In almost every marriage there is a selfish and an unselfish partner. A pattern is set up and soon becomes inflexible, of one person always making the demands and one person always giving way.

In almost every marriage there is a selfish and an unselfish

Summary

This quote suggest that in most marriages, there tends to be a dynamic between one selfish and one unselfish partner. Over time, this pattern becomes ingrained and rigid, with one person consistently making demands while the other person continually sacrifices their own needs. It implies that a power imbalance often emerges within relationships, highlighting the importance of addressing and rebalancing these dynamics for healthier and more equitable partnerships.

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Marriage

By Iris Murdoch

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