Quote by Havelock Ellis

Failing to find in women exactly the same kind of sexual emotions, as they find in themselves, men have concluded that there are none there at all.


Failing to find in women exactly the same kind of sexual emo

Summary

This quote suggests that men often assume that women do not experience the same level or type of sexual emotions as they do. It implies that men expect women to have identical desires and expressions of sexuality, and when they fail to find those similarities, they mistakenly believe that women have no such emotions. This viewpoint stems from a lack of understanding and recognition of the distinct and individual experiences of women, potentially leading to misconceptions and misunderstandings about female sexuality.

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Women
By Havelock Ellis
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